Ever notice how some people just seem to radiate joy, no matter what life throws at them?
I used to think these perpetually happy folks had some secret advantage. Maybe they were born with better brain chemistry, or their lives were just easier than mine. But after years of observing genuinely joyful people and diving into the research, I’ve realized something different.
Happiness isn’t about luck or circumstances. It’s about daily practices.
The truly joyful people I know aren’t waiting for happiness to find them. They’re actively creating it through small, consistent habits that anyone can adopt.
Let me share what I’ve learned from both research and personal experience about the seven daily practices that genuinely happy people swear by.
1. They spend time in nature every day
You know that friend who insists on eating lunch outside, even when it’s a bit chilly? They’re onto something.
Research shows that good health and wellbeing are connected to spending at least 120 minutes in nature each week. Even small doses of green space make a difference.
I started testing this myself last year. Just 20 minutes walking through the park near my apartment completely shifts my mental state. There’s something about being around trees and sky that puts problems into perspective.
The happiest people I know treat nature like medicine. They’ll take calls while walking outside. They’ll drink their morning coffee on the balcony. They find ways to weave nature into their day, even if they live in a concrete jungle.
It doesn’t have to be a mountain hike. A patch of grass, a tree-lined street, or even tending to houseplants counts. The point is making it non-negotiable.
2. They practice gratitude intentionally
This one used to make me roll my eyes. Gratitude journals? Come on.
But then I actually tried it during a particularly rough patch after my startup failed. Twenty minutes before bed, I’d write down three things I was grateful for. Some nights it was big stuff. Other nights it was just “good coffee this morning.”
Experts note that practicing gratitude can alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety, boost heart health, reduce stress, and even improve sleep quality.
The key word here is “intentionally.” Happy people don’t just feel grateful when good things happen. They actively look for things to appreciate, especially when life gets tough.
One friend keeps a gratitude jar where she drops in notes throughout the year. Another sends a thank-you text to someone different each morning. Find what works for you, but make it deliberate.
3. They move their bodies daily
According to neuroscientist Dr. Wendy Suzuki, “Exercise is the most transformative thing that you can do for your brain today.”
I tend to agree. I’ve become obsessed with this connection between movement and mood. On days when I skip my morning workout, I’m noticeably more anxious and less focused. It’s like night and day.
But here’s I think what separates joyful people from gym rats: they move for mental health, not just physical appearance. They’re not punishing themselves with exercise. They’re treating it as a daily mood booster.
This could be dancing while making breakfast, taking the stairs, or doing yoga during TV commercials. The happiest people I know have figured out ways to make movement enjoyable, not a chore.
4. They create meaningful connections
This is a huge one. ‘
I’ve noticed the happiest folks in my life have this habit of making everyone feel seen. They put their phone away during conversations. They maintain eye contact. They create space for real connection, not just surface-level interactions.
Small gestures compound over time. A two-minute check-in text can strengthen a friendship more than an annual birthday dinner.
5. They protect their sleep religiously
As Matthew Walker, professor of neuroscience and psychology at UC Berkeley, puts it: “Sleep is the single most effective thing we can do to reset our brain and body health each day.”
This was a game-changer for me. I used to pride myself on functioning on five hours of sleep. Now I realize I was basically operating at 60% capacity and wondering why I felt irritable all the time.
Good sleep isn’t about being boring. It’s about recognizing that everything else in your life works better when you’re well-rested.
6. They embrace mindful moments
One friend has a simple practice: every time she makes tea, she does nothing else. No phone, no multitasking. Just making and drinking tea. That’s it. She says these five-minute pockets of presence reset her entire day.
I started doing something similar with my morning coffee. Instead of scrolling through emails, I just sit with the coffee. Sounds simple, but it’s surprisingly hard at first.
The point isn’t to meditate for hours. It’s about finding small moments throughout your day to actually experience what’s happening right now.
7. They engage in activities that create flow
You know that feeling when you’re so absorbed in something that time disappears? Happy people chase that feeling regularly.
For some, it’s painting. Others find it in cooking, coding, gardening, or playing music. The activity doesn’t matter. What matters is regularly entering that state where you’re fully engaged and challenged.
I discovered that authentic writing creates this flow for me. When I stopped trying to sound polished and corporate and just wrote like I talk, hours would fly by. It connects better with readers too, which was an unexpected bonus.
Happy people schedule these flow activities like appointments. They protect this time fiercely because they know it feeds their soul.
Rounding things off
Here’s what I’ve learned: happiness isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about being intentional with what’s already there.
These seven practices aren’t revolutionary. You’ve probably heard versions of them before. But the difference between knowing and doing is everything.
Start with one. Pick the practice that feels most doable and commit to it for a week. Once it feels natural, add another.
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